Users Say This ‘Gorgeous’ Ex of Ben Affleck Is ‘Better’ for Him than JLo – Here’s Why

Jennifer Lopez recently filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, putting the dynamics of their relationship in the spotlight once again. Since the news broke, fans have started revisiting his previous relationship with another actress and producer. Many argue that Affleck was happier and more compatible with his former love.

Social media is alive with opinions, and the debate over who was the better match for Affleck is growing. As we explore the reasons behind these sentiments, the contrasts between his time with his former love and Lopez will come into focus.

Users’ Opinions on Ben Affleck’s Previous Relationship

With Lopez recently filing for divorce on their second wedding anniversary, it seems the relationship many fans had questioned from the start has come to an end. Many initially expressed their views on who they believe is the better match for the actor when he and JLo rekindled their relationship.

The general consensus? Many think Affleck’s previous relationship with Ana de Armas was far more suited to him, with some even dubbing her his “true love.”

One user on X didn’t mince words, stating, “It’s Jennifer Lopez lmao, we saw it coming + we are tired. Ben, go back to Ana de Armas and never look back.”

Another echoed this sentiment, adding, “Always think the same; Jennifer Lopez Karma is that she use every relationship to try to get over the past man she had. Now her karma is that Ben is using her to try to get over Ana De Armas, his real one true love is her, not JLO. [sic]”

These comments reflect a widespread belief that de Armas brought out a happier, more genuine side of Affleck, something fans felt was missing in his relationship with Lopez.

One X user commented, “Ben has become the saddest, most pathetic person in Hollywood since he married JLo. Ana de Armas was better for him.”

The comparisons didn’t stop there. “How could Ben Affleck change Ana de Armas for Jennifer Lopez?” one user questioned, while another speculated, “Ana de Armas left him…. JLo most likely was his rebound girl… he realized that he’s still in love with Ana…”

Others were more direct in their admiration for de Armas, with one stating, “Well, there only was one choice[.] Ana de Armas is better than JLo any day.” Another commented back in June, “Dude left Ana de Armas, of all the gorgeous women in the world, to go back to jlo hahahaahahah biggest fumble [sic].”

The flood of opinions shows how strongly fans feel about Affleck’s past with de Armas. They feel he was happier with her than he ever was with Lopez.

A Facebook post featuring a photo collage of Affleck’s exes was also shared online, sparking discussion among fans. The collage began with Garner, followed by de Armas, and ended with Lopez.

The post was captioned, “So GORGEOUS! 😍😍😍 Can’t even FIGURE OUT who among Ben Affleck’s EXES is MORE BEAUTIFUL.🤔”

AmoMama readers quickly chimed in with their opinions. One reader excitedly wrote, “Number 2 but I think he should be with number 1, Jennifer Garner.” Another chimed in, saying, “Number two stands out from the picture!”

A third reader questioned, “How dare you put Ana in 2nd place?” Someone else shared, “Ana is more beautiful, Garner is a beautiful human being, and JL is also beautiful.” Another simply added, “2 in my opinion.”

The lively debate among AmoMama readers underscores the strong opinions surrounding Affleck’s past relationships. As some fans favored de Armas in the beauty stakes, it’s clear she made quite an impression during her time with Affleck.

The Ben-Ana Relationship

Affleck and de Armas reportedly first crossed paths on the set of the psychological thriller “Deep Water,” directed by Adrian Lyne. Their on-screen chemistry as a couple quickly spilled over into real life, and the two stars were frequently seen together after filming wrapped.

What started as a professional relationship soon blossomed into a romance that captivated fans and media alike. Despite the strong connection between Affleck and de Armas, their relationship ended in January 2021 after nearly a year together.

According to sources close to the couple, Ana de Armas ended things, citing differences in their lifestyles as the primary reason. “Ana doesn’t want to be Los Angeles-based, and Ben obviously has to since his kids live in Los Angeles,” one source explained.

Another added that the split was mutual and amicable, with both stars respecting each other’s choices. Affleck, juggling multiple projects and his responsibilities as a father, was reportedly focused on working on himself, while de Armas wanted to move on with her life in a different direction.